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Friday, December 31, 2010

Happy New Year 2011

A Very Safe, Happy and Prosperous New Year to All Our Valued readers.
 
We must take a pledge today to:
 
1. Stop Ragging in all the Institutions and make Indian Education System a Ragging Free Place.
2. Make Indian Institutions a Innovation Place Where Innovative Ideas are generated.
3. Make Indian Institutions a Leader in Education and Research.
 
Ragging India Team

Monday, June 28, 2010

love signs

Your yes meet across the room. Does he think you look hot in that dress or just plain frumpy? You want to ask her out but is that a flirtatious look she's shooting you or a dirty one!

You've been going out together for months but do you still find her as unpredictable as the weather? Love-o-logy isn't simple. But it won't seem like Greek either, if you increase your chances of getting lucky in love with these tips.

What's she thinking?
Women are more emotionally complex. Understanding their body language is a bit tougher. Here are some tips to get you started:

Eyes : Are her pupils dilated? When a woman is attracted to you, her pupils will dilate slightly while interacting with you. And she has no control over it. Great cue to use with a shy woman.

Hair : Is she tossing her hair or running her fingers through them repeatedly? You could get lucky.

Touch : If she starts touching her face, arms, neck in your presence then she would like you to take notice of her.

Leaning in : If her shoulders and knees are pointing towards you, then that's an even more positive sign.

Signs he will ask you out

He raises his eyebrows . When a man sees someone he's into, he'll automatically lift and lower his eyebrows, wrinkling his forehead in the process. But you'll have to keep your eyes peeled to catch a glimpse of this tell-tale signal.

He tilts his head slightly to the side when your eyes meet . The head tilt is a subconscious come–hither signal that the guy is interested in you.

He can't wipe off that wide-smile . Consider it the "Wow, you give me butterflies smile." If it's accompanied by a hearty laugh, look out. If he were any more into you, he might get down on one knee!

He mirrors you . Mirroring gestures are where the guy picks up his glass to drink at the same time as you, or makes similar movements with his body at the same time as you. He may cross or uncross his legs when you do or make similar hand gestures.

He extends his palm . When a guy offers his palm to you, face up, you know hands down he's hooked. He's literally and figuratively reaching out to the person he's speaking with in an attempt to connect on a deeper emotional level.

He holds a long, piercing gaze . He's doing that as he wants to date you. But if it's a long term relationship you're looking for, pass it up. Because although you may think he's smitten, he could be playing you. Holding intense eye contact for more than five seconds doesn't happen naturally, so he may be using the look solely as a player's technique to get what he wants!

'He's-just-not-that-into-you' language
He averts his eyes . Your man will reduce eye contact. He's subconsciously aware that one peek into his peepers will reveal his inner feelings.

He turns his cheek mid-conversation . Occasionally averting his eyes or scanning the room is normal, but if you find yourself talking mostly to his profile, you're in trouble.

When you ask him if he still loves you, does he covers his mouth with his hand? When he unconsciously obstructs your view of his lips, it's a sign that he's trying to block the truth from slipping out. In addition, he might lick his lips and look away from you, directing his eyes down and to the right.

When you are attempting to have a serious conversation with him, does he avoid eye contact? Then, he is effectively telling you that he doesn't want the conversation. Fiddling is another gesture made when nervous to distract you and to quell his anxiety.

Is he in it for the long-term?
He says good-bye with a peck. If nine times out of ten he plants a tender kiss on your cheek, then it suggests a paternal instinct. He wants to take care of you. He slouches his shoulders. When we find another's actions adorable, we often want to hold that person tight. As a result, the shoulders automatically round off. This slump indicates attraction, even better, a serious emotional undercurrent. In case of a long-term boyfriend, this shoulder roll is a sign that one of your quirks has tugged on his heartstrings. source:timesofindia

Modern marriages secrets

When two people are dating we often hear about their puppy love, tiffs, both big and small but the moment they get into a serious relationship, we barely get to know what's really going on in their life. We help you get an insight into the secret of modern marriages!

The unspoken pressure on married couples to present a happy, healthy relationship to the outer world doesn't let anyone get a peek inside their real world. Admitting that you are unhappy can be seen as failure so people prefer to keep such details to themselves. Also, as soon as we experience a lull in our sex life, we assume that everyone else must be having more sex than we are. We found out five common issues that all married couples face...

Sex can be boring, occasionally
True, sex can occasionally be messy, painful, boring and unwanted. Shares HR consultant Deepika Kapur, "The first time we had boring sex, I was left shaken. I thought our chemistry was over and now our sack sessions would never be good again. But I soon got over the fear. Our next sack session was one of the best that we ever had."

One partner is always left craving
No two people in a marriage have the same libido. One is always left craving for sex. Modern life has also given way to new sexual pressures and expectations that can not always be met. Says consultant Hemant Sinha, "I have always had a high sex drive. My wife and I have fantabulous sex but there are many times when I am craving for it and she's not in a mood."

Sex drive disappears once in a while
The reality is that a large number of couples experience sexual difficulties at some point of time in their marriage. This is when their sex drive drops. Suggest sex therapist Payal Kapoor, "Instead of thinking how badly it reflects your feelings for the partner, concentrate on bigger issues that are making you feel disinterested in sex." Payal goes on to add, "Sometimes separate beds can reignite the spark! It has helped many couples I have known. It breaks the monotony and makes them long for each other."

Sexually unfaithful thoughts are common
Some people need constant reminders of how desirable and sexy they still look. When that doesn't happen, they look for admiration outside. And having sexually unfaithful thoughts are common. Someone rightly said, 'Sex pulls you away but love gets you back!' Adds psychologist Seema Hingorani, "It is human tendency to feel wanted. And when couples don't get it in their marriage, they seek it outside and such thoughts are common."

Incessant fights are normal
You often wonder seeing a happy couple around you how they manage to be so in love, while you pull the trigger almost every second day. Do not feel guilty thinking you are the only one who does it. All couples fight, and this is the rule! source:timesofindia

Why Men Deny Sex?

World has a feeling that men are hungry for sex but it's not true. There are times when men too deny sex and the reasons for that could be many. Here are some of those reasons why a man would deny sex.

1.If a man is taking either antidepressants or blood pressure medication then his interest towards sex would be very low. Also these medicines can affect his sound sexual function.


2.People think that men during their twenties or teens are more inclined towards sex but studies prove that it's wrong. A man during this age tend to have inclination towards a sound sleep rather have sex.

3.Identity is another issue to have a lower sexual interest. If man has a confusion or the feeling that he is not been identified for what he is, he will lose interest in sex. Even depression can be one of the reasons.

4.Man wants his partner to have the same sexual interests like his, although they don't talk to their partner about this, deep inside a man long for a woman with similar sexual interest. If he feels that his partner is not of his kind, he usually withdraw from having sex. Also men experience lack of interest due to the things what his partner does during sex or how he experiences her body.

5.Men deny sex when they are undergoing any interpersonal issues. They deny it as a punishment for their partner.

6.Stress can be another reason for their lack of interest. This can come in any form like challenges at work, financial difficulties, personal issues etc.

7.These days masturbation is a serious threat to partnered sex. Men have started finding masturbation more interesting than partnered sex.

8.Men who face sexual dysfunction, like issues in erection, early or late ejaculation avoids sex.

9.Another interesting reason for lack of sexual interest is, some men hunt for a best place to have sex, unless they find the suitable place or circumstance, they stay away from sex.

Friday, June 25, 2010

Romance tips for men

Australian model Miranda Kerr has offered men ten tips on how they can have romantic harmony with their partners and continue doing so.

Kerr, 27, told men's lifestyle website AskMen.com that usually it is the little things that count, and that no matter what, they should at all times be themselves and pay attention to their partner's needs.

She also said that staying healthy, showing affection and a willingness to pamper are also attractive qualities in the eyes of the fairer sex.

"In my experience, it is the random small gestures that I find the most romantic," the Sydney Morning Herald quoted her as telling the website.

"It could be something as simple as making me a cup of tea or being given a foot massage while we are watching a movie at home after a long day at work.

If more men made an effort to do these little things for their partner throughout their everyday life they would be guaranteed to have a more romantic relationship," she added.

Kerr's 10 romance tips :

1. Treat her like a goddess
2. Pamper her
3. Be healthy
4. Get a baby sitter
5. Tell her she is beautiful and romance her
6. Don't be afraid to show her love
7. Know what you want
8. Connect with her
9. Listen to her
10. Buy the right size
source:timesofindia.indiatimes

Safety on first date

There is an inexplicable joy of going out on a first date, especially a blind date. But one can never be careful enough. Here are some important points you need to heed.

- Before you go out on a first date, get to know the person by talking to them, be it at your college or workplace or on the phone.

- If you are not too sure about your date, go out with a group of friends for the first few times. Also, opt for public places versus lonesome spots.

- Some good and safe first date activities include lunch with friends, going to a fun movie, a trip to the mall or an easy coffee date.

- Clearly spell out to your date what you feel comfortable doing and what time you are expected to be back home.

- Even if you don't want to tell your parents about your first date, at least keep your close friends in the loop about who is your date, where you are going and how you can be reached. Also, no matter what, do not switch off your cell phone.

- If your first date is with someone you met off the internet, you need to be extra careful. Never tell him your home address. Instead choose a public place close to your neighbourhood, so incase you want to leave, you can find your way back home. Use your common sense and keep your guard up until you're sure you are safe with your date.

- If you have been invited to your date's house on the first date, don't go. It may sound like a romantic idea, but it's best to first meet outside, If any problem arises you won't have anyone around to help you

- While it's all right to drink on a first date, keep the alcoholic drinks to a minimum. You don't want to get yourself into a situation which makes you vulnerable nor do you want to make a bad impression on your date.

- Women should avoid dressing suggestively. It's great to show a bit of flesh but just ensure you don't overdo it. Remember wearing too little may suggest that you're a little 'easy'.

- If your date is asking too many questions or getting too friendly or making you uncomfortable, feel free to leave at anytime.
source:timesofindia.indiatimes

Changing the place of Love

If your bedroom boredom has taken a toll on your sex life, all you need is a drastic, yet quick change. How about changing the place in which you are having sex?

Forget the boring kitchen or the bathtubs... think bizarre, out-of-the-box! Try out unexplored corners in your house, which you've have never earlier considered as apt places to enjoy a steamy sex session. From your storeroom to the dirty basement that you've never bothered to clean up to the garage that you thought was only meant for car parking – try out off-beat sex destinations and convert them into sensuous love dens.

Sex expert Dr. Deepak Arora agrees, "Whenever you experience a change in your life you feel more excited and the same holds true for sexual intimacy. Couples should keep changing the decoration of their rooms like lighting, placement of objects, wall colours, curtains etc to infuse a fresh feel every time they get intimate, as it boosts their sexual pleasure."

Sex counselor Dr. Shivi Jaggi supports, "Taking of sex variations, a place can influence a couples' pleasure quotient. Any place outside the stereotypical bedroom will help couples keep alive their sexual fire. The reason why they find hotel rooms more appealing than their bedrooms is for because it's a new pleasure playground that takes their mind away from mundane domesticity and adds a zing of excitement. So, if they pay a little attention and experiment with the decor of certain places within their own homes, they can perform wonders in their sex life."

So, the next time you plan an intimate session with your partner, try out these unexplored places within your house and see the heat of passion building like never before...

Garage Passion : Everyone loves a wild backseat romp, but it can get even wilder if you try sex in the garage. The dark ambiance and the rusty feel will surely build up the mood for a night of passion. Fun would be at its peak when you play love games of hide and seek behind the parked cars and let your partner look for you and thus build up your sexual mood. Alternately try a sex romp on top of your car. Dr. Jaggi explains, "In a garage, it's the raw energy of the destination that adds to the pleasure and once you're away from the comfort of your bedroom, this crude place is definitely racy and exciting. If you really wish to have a new-fangled change, you can specially design your garage to make it an apt place for sex."
Word of caution : Make sure you do not make too much noise by pressing the car horn and disturbing your neighbours as they may interrupt your sexual act.

Arty Attic : An attic fills the space between the ceiling of the top floor of a building and the slanted roof, and they are known for being awkwardly shaped spaces with exposed rafters and difficult-to-access corners. So why not make the most of this neglected area in your house? Decorate it in an alluring manner to seduce your partner and during the act, try out new positions in accordance with the structure of the attic. Dr. Arora states, "Due to hectic lifestyles, couples have no time to maintain their attic space. But just devoting a single day to covert it into a lavish area to have sex can turn the heat on. Couples will surely leave their bedroom luxuries behind and have sex on rough surfaces like that of an attic."
Word of caution : Since attics bear a slanted roof, ensure that you don't get up much during the sexual act or else you'll end up hurting yourself and spoiling the fun. source:timesofindia.indiatimes
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